"I am no expert on love, but I have a few suggestions to keeping your love alive.

1: Don’t fall asleep angry. But if you do, wake up in the middle of the night and hold her as close as you can.

2: Laugh during sex, especially if you bump heads. If you aren’t laughing, you’re with the wrong person.

3: If you don’t feel comfortable dancing naked with your partner and showing them your four chins when you laugh, you’re doing it wrong.

4: Romance isn’t for everyone, but a post-it note in their lunchbox telling them they’re the best will never go amiss.

5: Don’t cling to them at parties. Dance with friends and spend time with acquaintances, but wink at each other across the room.

6: Keep everything 50/50, or you will fall out of balance.

7: Stop comparing your relationship to others- you are you, don’t try to be someone else.

8: Be kind. Give them space when they need it, but be their home when they come back.

9: Be proud to love them.

10: Support them through whatever they do in life, even if it’s a stupid decision. People need to make their own mistakes, but be there if it falls apart, and never say ‘I told you so’.

And most of all, love with your whole heart, or don’t love at all."

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"Falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make you vain or selfish, it makes you indestructible."

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0601; joffre lakes IV

Closer by (Joseph Schwartz)
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12 Things you should do if you love someone 

1. Write them poetry even if it’s shitty. I don’t care if it’s fucking nonsense. Write how they make you feel like fire. 

2. Let them cry into your shirt. Let them wipe their snot and tears on you. It doesn’t matter if it’s your favorite shirt. If you love them you won’t care. 

3. Count the stars with them. When you see a shooting star. Tell them how you wished for them to kiss you. Then fucking kiss them. 

4. When they tell you they want to die. Look them in the eyes and whisper “I fucking love you.” Stay up with them all night and talk them out of it. Remind them that they extinguished the pain in your heart and say you’ll help do the same.

5. Bring them roses. I don’t care if they’re a boy or a girl. Roses will make anyone’s day. 

6. On the days they’re afraid they’ll lose you. Kiss their forehead, remind them that you love them more than you love your favorite band and then kiss their lips so passionately that they’re questioning themselves as to why they asked that question. 

7. Sing with them. They won’t care if your voice is shitty. They’ll be more focused on the redness of your cheeks than the rattle of your vocal chords. 

8. When they wake up in the morning tell them their beautiful. Say their messy hair and sleepy voice is the reason you get up in the morning. Tell them you live for their good morning smile. 

9. When they’re puking in a bucket because they’re sick, hug them. They’ll resist and say how there’s vomit all over them. Hug them anyways. It’ll mean the world to them. 

10. When you touch them, tell them that they are a masterpiece. Every curve of their body is beautiful. Especially their soul. Remind them that they are a supernova and you’d love them even if they exploded. 

11. On the days they make you want to tear your hair out, remind yourself that you picked them for a reason. Remember that you chose them and they chose you. 

12. Just fucking love them even when they don’t deserve it. 

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m.n.

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